Yes ..the friends thing really works for a community but in dating people don't want to see a bunch of people from the opposite sex writing the person they like....it discourages them from writing that member but I am sure they are community site focused right now...like you said maybe a later beta...... I will just have my designer take all of that out for my dating site but then I have to build the video music and photos back into the page.....I hope my designer can do it.....