Re-evaluated MYSELF this time...the conclusion?

Well, I've talked so much about what I wanted to change and the possibility of me moving on to another script.But I'm realizing that this is going to be the direction I go in. I'm starting to see that as things grow so does the responsibilty. I've come along way with Dolphin but I've now realized that I've run out of room.I guess I'm starting to feel like the weight of the world is on my shoulders right now. I'm the only person on the team who actually knows anything about anything. But as I say this, I want to say that We are about to remove our site and invest in something much more flexible.

I've decided.....

I've done tons of talking about my website but no one has actually seen what we've done so far. I was afraid to showcase my website but I'm over that. I figure if any of my fellow dolphin members want to act like children and do something to my site out of sheer boredom and ignorance then this may not be the place for me, anyway. 

Just kididng, NOT DOING IT. We have decided ( I have decided) to let Dolphin go. It's way too difficult to extend this script. I've never had so much trouble customzing my site. I'ev come to the conclusion that if I just spent a couple of hundred dollars on a script that works for me, then that would be much less that I would end up spend on Dolphin in the long run. Modules cost an arm and a leg and on top of that you have to pay some one to put them in. (if you need it) I can't seem to get the simplest thing done, like swap out my media player and the bottom line is, it's not user friendly AT ALL. IT's a cool dating site and that is exactly what it's made for but as far as it being a "Music Site," it's not working for me. It was a nice try but we need a huge make over before we actually hit the web for real.

Now the real question is.....

Are web searchers more comfortable with and attracted to white backgrounds than they are colorful ones? I tried askin gmyself this question but I'm not all that sure. I gravitate to white backgrounds as well as colorful ones. I believe though, that the white backgrounds get my attention the longest. This is a poll question I thought about taking when I get the time, thought I would start here.

As far as my previous post, I wanted to stomp around this subject real quick before I bounced out of here. CHAP1978, can you please explain to me your purpose? I checked out the website like you asked me to but then I get there and I'm bombarded by all these flash files. I go to your profile and there is absolutely nothing to look at, I'm confused. I don't mind you giving me a referral link, you hit me up with some useful information and I'm greatful for that. And that is exactly why I checked out whatever it was you left in my comment section, BUT if you are going to send me to a referral link, at least have something to offer me! I was ready to buy something but was thrown off by the sight of "NOTHING."