3) Now you have a preconfigured join form with few fields for matching (looking for, city, and so on). It could be nice to have already configurated more field for matching like phisical description (hair, eyes, tall, body size, etc...), way of life (smoke, no smoke, etc...), hobbies (cinema, music, etc...) and so on
4) Now the backgorund is online even if the admin don't approve it. That is not good to check the content of the site.