I understand what you guys are saying I was prepared and expecting that. And ghost of course I want to make LOADS AND BUCKETS FULL of money! Don't we all?

I was thinking maybe I could inform members that the site may not always be free and to get in now! That way if I choose to charge in the future they'd be prepared. And maybe I won't give up all the sites features for free.

Mscott, you answered my main question, basically I was wondering how the big charge per member dating sites got started. see more

So I have a game plan now, I'll just focus on getting TONS of Members, (restrict some future features) hopefully make good money with advertising and then maybe a BIG GUY will buy me out someday. (or I'll get capital and saturate the market myself!)

Thanks again to all. Feel free to add any other ideas you may have. (I'm all ears or eyes in this case)