We learn from mistakes, the relations here are very strong, perhaps that's why we argue sometimes..
I personally never seen anybody in the answers or forums to "bite your head off".. the members try their best to help the newbies and to solve their problems.. so you can say they "bite their time off".. rarely there is no answer to their posts.. so I disagree with you here..
You're right about the present "chaos", but I know that once dolphin 7 is going to be used on see more boonex, some things will be changed accompanied by the new "dolphin constitution"..