I would say the reason I chose Dolphin was probably like a few others.. All this ?? And Free too????. However dolphin has come a long way and now has alot more members to help with those bugs you mention. But I mean, what can you say, you pay hundreds of dollars for software that has bugs in it (take a look at your OS). I can't say its perfect but I can say that it is becoming more stable.

As for the dating vs. social networking, I have just disabled/modded all of those "Looking for" see more crap (I mean stuff) on my site to make it appear more of a social networking site.

I too enjoy it and plan on continuing my playground of fun with Dolphin.