I have the free version as well. I had them add my domain to the database. I have tried everything, and all I get is a little square on my chat page. This is so frustrating... In my settings, I have everything set correctly:

Site Name: crazysextalk.com
Use RMS - Checked
RMS Address: rms.boonex.com
RMS port: 1935

I have tried different combinations of the above and different ports, etc. - bupkiss.

Any ideas at all?

RMS HTTP port: 5080