In reply to Real Names
tyke
DeeEmm, well,what can i say to that,ok. then answer this then, if there is no real danger from putting up your details for all to see, then why is there a whole industry dedicated to trawling websites and forums simply looking for peoples identities, why is it then that most countries have some form of data protection act to stop site owners from being sloopy with your private details.
giving your name is not optional, if you dont then it seems that your experience on here is going to lessened in see more some way. Maybe its fine for some, but its not for others and it should be our choice, our private detail belong to us, and so its up to us what we do with them and there should be no penalty if we choose to not want them displaying. Being called psycotic for wanting to protect your own private details is a little OTT dont you think, some would also argue that this is the thin edge of the wedge not knowing where this will end. For those who do live in the real world, we know how easy it is for people to use your details for all sorts of things.
there is also something else that people dont really think about if you post under your real name.
Google never forgets, so say something online that you may regret,say you get involved with an argument with someone who is attacking you online, or you have a bad moment, then somebody wants to do business with you, or you apply for a job and somebody googles your name and comes up with your misjudgements, you then get unfairly penalised. just say i want to hire you now, i google DeeEmm and i find your comments calling people psychotic for wanting to protect their privacy,how does that make you look to a future employer, one that may want to put you in a position of trust with other people private details.

all this does have a back lash, even in the business world, more so under the example ive just given.

Regards

Tyke
DeeEmm
Tyke - thanks for the perfect example of someone who does not READ the post, which is the main theme of my rant. My comment is not OTT if you understand the context.

Considering Andrew as some kind of evil dictator IS by definition a psychotic tendency - psychotic, literally means abnormal condition of the mind, and is a generic psychiatric term for a mental state often described as involving a "loss of contact with reality".

Andrew is not an evil dictator, he is simply someone running see more a business trying to do his best.

Please try to read and understand the post before replying - it can save a lot of embarrassment later on.

;)

Perhaps you should also re-read and try to understand the OP.

Shucks - let me do it for you...

GIVING YOUR NAME IS OPTIONAL!!

Also to play devils advocate to your argument that 'Google never forgets' - do you not consider that this would encourage people to communicate in a more respectful manner - this has already been suggested by CodeSatori earlier in the thread. Perhaps you didn't read that either.

I find it a shame that Boonex are trying to protect it's members best interests by addressing issues that have been raised such as the scammers on expertzzz and the tone of communication, and all they get is flamed for trying.

I wonder of there would be as many flamings if people were known by your real names??

There are many real name sites out there, none of which pose any issues to privacy, and none of which contribute to identity theft. You need a little more info than this to have a usable identity. Trawling forums for names and addresses will not help you steal someones identity, if this were true, why would you simply not go out and get a phone book or use the whitepages.

Seriously - if you truly believe that someone will empty your bank account, by posting your name and address on the internet - then you really are paranoid.

Perhaps you should also consider that people can covertly view your webcam, listen to your microphone, listen to you mobile phone, even use it to track your location, they can also read a newspaper from out of space, in fact tyke - they are looking at you right now - big brother is watching you lol

BWAAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA

:D

It's ironic that you should site an example using a google search to display my OTT comments. If you've never viewed my profile you probably wouldn't know that it says "I am DeeEmm - Google me".

My name and address is freely available on the internet to those who know where to look (a google search is a good starting point), I don't hide behind anything when I post here - there is no alter ego, or online persona - these are my views and opinions, and I stand by them. But then I realise and appreciate that the web is an extension of the real world and treat it as such.
tyke
As a trained councillor, i am very aware of what psychotic means thank you and I certainly did read all the posts before i commented,and i still stand by every word i said, no embarrassment here, sorry.
As far as people using their real names would instil better behaviour is debatable. The debate isnt really about verification but forced displaying of details,giving your name is not optional if you want to get the full benefit of the site, that is clearly stated by Andrew, perhaps you need to re-read see more that bit again. Boonex is trying to protect its members from the farse of expertzzz, yes i agree with that, but verification will do that, displaying names will not.
It all very well you putting yourself in a position in a business sense of google me, ive got nothing to hide,but why must everybody be forced into that situation if they dont want it, that is my debate. im a pundit remember so im already verified, ive nothing to hide, but this site is meant to be a community, and most of the community simply dont want this forcing on them, and i 100% agree with that.
See i managed to respond with out silly comments of big brother and so on. i know how to behave too, and my real name isnt Tyke (go figure~)
DeeEmm
Tyke - "giving your name is not optional if you want to get the full benefit of the site"

The only effect not using your real name / getting verified will have is to change how you are perceived - There is no reduced functionality mentioned as many are saying...

No need to re-read as i will quote it here: "At a later stage we plan to start "verifying" names/company names and issuing some sort of notice about verification (here's where the "limited experience" see more word may substantiate). Consider difference beween products bought from "SegaMega (anon)" and "James Tadeo (verified)"."

Like I said - I simply find the whole thing amusing - it's pretty funny how the concept of Chinese whispers manifests itself here - it's almost like you cannot see any post but the previous one until you have posted (I use the term 'you' in it's wider context here - meaning site users - not necessarily you tyke). By the time the thread is X posts long it's changed from voluntarily giving your name to fascist communism where you are punished for not giving your name and banned from using the best bits of the site.

It's just comical - that's all I'm saying.

BTW - if you have no issue with using your real name for verification, why such strong views over the voluntary usage of real names? It's a little like making noise for the sake of it.
 
 
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