I have owned a dating company for 15 years and have not "ONCE" had anybody ask if they could use a fake "username". Now I am having a problem with a soft ware that I bought that is based there whole system on "username". If you don't want your real name just put a fake name ..what is so hard about that. Everyone has a user Id so if you don't want your name displayed hide it and use your member number.......nobody remembers someones fake name anyways