Haven't you guys realized that when you delete a sent message it also deletes the message from the recipient's inbox?

This is probably why you're not allowed to delete sent messages in the first place.

And on the flipside, when you delete messages in your inbox it deletes them from the senders "sent mail".

The messages are linked, and need to be separate. What am I missing here?

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