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i restored my old dolphin 6.0.0005-free, rms 3.1 and jre 1.6u5 my old setup which worked. with ray chat 3.5 i got the same effect with 6.5 with rms 3.5 with jre 1.6u6. rms doesn't accept connections anymore.

the only thing i changed is the license code...i generated new licenses.

is it possible that ray chat doesn't like the license string? i generated several times new licenses and re-registered...but it still doesn't work.

i got the impression that ray chat is rejected from connecting see more to my rms because of some license issue.