Hello,

> dating.thegayestwebsiteever.com is running extremely slow. I dont know
> whether it is the script itself I dont think it is, but rather I am unsure
> any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Should I compile a fastcgi wrapper

I did find another user on the server that was creating some issues, but
I took care of that and your site is still having issues. The problem I
see is not with the page loading slowly, but that a script is not loading
properly. When loading the see more page, my browser becomes non-responsive for
quite a while. So, I believe this is an issue with one of the scripts
for this software.

You should try disabling any extra scripts that are running and see if
that resolves this issue.

Please let me know what you discover!

Thanks!
Patrick M