Okay have everything installed edited every option my php.ini wide open. Xampp has sendmail and smtp installed with it... get email send failed for invites and users can't get their passwords sent to them....

So after 5 hours of fiddling safe to say something: The way This script send mails needs some work. . And if I get this right the only fix to this problem is a work around mod that I have to pay for? And there is no support here? If I get no response in the next few hours I guess that is see more a yes and I will move on... was looking at phpmotion seems easy to install.. And great support.