Caltrade, i dont think there is any call to be so aggressive,with your get a life comment and so on. I wasnt bothered about the neg, just that there wasnt a comment to go with it. I really dont know why you take things so personally.

i have to say though,with respect of course, that your protest about a site having it rules is very odd. you have rules on your site, Yes? do you expect people to follow those rules, yes! what happens if they dont, you already said you delete them from your own site see more if they start causing you problems which is the right thing to do if they refuse to respect your rules.

let me ask you too, you must go to other sites besides your own and this one, dont you follow the rules of those sites then or just do what you want. I suspect you follow the rules because if you dont, you wont be a member very long.

Im not a rule freak coltrade, i am a professional global moderator and have been for years on and off, and i know for a fact that if a site doesnt have its rule then it gives a false impression that members can behave how they like, and we all saw what happens when that is allowed and it really isn't nice.

Now you can argue all you like, i have made my comment, one that i believe is correct and wont be making further comment on this matter concerning you.

regards

Tyke.