see moreAnd once again this is why I keep recommending that you guys run an e-mail filtering system that monitors for scam/spam type e-mails and stops them from ever reaching the members. This is something I've been running since day one on all sites that I work on (I actually require it be part of any site I work on) and it delivers awesome results. Basically, no spam type e-mails ever reach a member and the real members can e-mail as much as they want. Not that difficult a concept to meet your goal.