One of the fundamental features that I think you are missing in your "turn on the module of your choice" philosophy is that SO MANY modules rely on other modules. I would LOVE to use the chat, whiteboard, and groups feature WITHOUT having to use the MP3 and files modules. We don't want the music/MP3 feature at all on our site (due to licensing and royalty concerns), but are required to have them installed because the features we want won't install without these required modules.

Therefore, see more it would be great if you could "unlink" some of the modules so that they aren't so heavily reliant on each other. The system isn't truly modular if it requires everything else to be installed to activate the features that we want.

I also think that we need to step away from the dating aspects of the system a bit, and make the system so that these features are modular. For those of us that *ARE* using this in a commercial (non-dating) setting, having the ability to turn off dating-related features would be a godsend. It would be VERY nice if the search member features could allow us to turn off the "search users by age/sex" since these features look rather creepy on a non-matchmaking site. (Especially if we were to try to be COPPA compliant)