newton - ok, that is constructive I guess. I have removed a few of those images I didn't like anyway so maybe that will speed things up a bit. I also use the "random member display" mod, which Boonex has cautioned will slow down the site, so maybe I have to get rid of that. I can't afford a faster server right now. I thought this was another "Rob you suck" post without giving us a good example of someone who uses Dolphin who doesn't such, and it is, but I can see you like see more that other site also. It wasn't my intention to try to get people to like Social Engine better, it was my intention to try to learn what I can do to make my site more engaging.