There are 2 video players just like 2 music players..."P" as profile player and just a player( for gallery)
They all should be in your ray suite...just go thru all of them....you will get status message...install or register....but you have to watch where you instaling your files ( music or video) is you are signed in as a member, click on my profile...you will see "upload profile video"....thats for members profile video...is you as a member click on videos on top nav bar....and see more then "upload video" that file will go to gallery, not profile.
====about items not shown......try to go to
admin--->bulders--->there choose what page you want to work...one at the time...lets say profile--> you will see bunch of blocks just muve them around and see what happenes on th efront end...how I do it....
in on IE I sign in as a member in second as admin
in first I open profile page in second (admin side) I move blocks around, then on the first one hit refresh....
Note...let say video player gallery block.....click on it when its in active area....a small window will open...you will have an option to choose who will see it....visitor and/or members
you just need to play around using 2 Internet Explorers until you get used to the program.
I hope this helps