Ok I know I'm not going crazy. I could SWEAR the other day I was logged in as a test member and I clicked "Unregister" to see what would happen.
It gave me a warning message saying that would basically suspend my account so I wouldn't be visible to other users. I clicked that SAME link today after making the site not in free mode anymore and it is warning me that this action will DELETE my account and photos.
How do I change it back so that when a member clicks that link it will only suspend their account not delete it.