In reply to Real Names
mydatery
Wow! People are still holding onto this desire to not allow the displaying of real names, so maybe I can add some confustion to the subject. And I get to make a shiny list like Andrew did.

1. Andrew stated: "First, note that it's "request", not "require"." That means you don't have to provide it, you can just say you want to be anon and you are anon. You can say your name is "nottellingyoumyname" and it will be accepted. Of course, that one will see more be very easy to verify.

2. Andrew state: "Second, we won't show your real names, unless/until you approve it." What? We have to give you permission to show our real name? How dare you Andrew make it so we have to decide if our names will be shown. That is so like... "Facebook" & "Myspace" Note that you get to choose whether your name is show or not shown.

3. Andrew stated: "One could also use a fake name and display something like "Mickey Mouse"." That means that I could lie and give you the name "Minnie Mighty Mouse" and you would never know it was really me, Mickey Mouse. I hope people are starting to see the point here. You still get to remain just as anonymous as ever.

Now, moving on into my own little tirade. If you have taken the time to get to know me, then you have more than likely talked to me on Yahoo or in off-site e-mail. The most amazing part of that is, if you have, you have my full name, minus the middle names (mother was a very cruel woman, I'm still going through Jose Cuervo counseling for those middle names) and I don't attempt to hide it.

The internet in the end is a tool, a tool that was originally designed to provide open access to information in a quick and efficient manner. Today it has evolved into a communications tool. By far the most powerful communications tool ever designed. It is this tool that the vast majority of Unity members here are building their businesses and futures on, this includes the love spammers that Unity gets in all the time. Gotta love those girls and their due diligence to tell us how much they love each of us.

As a business owner, I take pride in what I bring to the market, the services that I provide and the solutions I come up with to meet the needs of my customers. I believe that each person here has that same sense of pride. Whether you are here as code/programmer, site owner/webmaster, hobbyist or just trying to learn how php works (yes, we have some of those) you take pride in what you do.

Further, I truly believe that you take pride in who you are and in your word. You take pride in those things that you have created and there is not a single person here who is going to say they haven't done a great job on building what they have. (Okay, maybe those who title threads: Help! Urgent! Emergency!, but we'll leave them out of this for now)

Someone said in one of the threads, blogs, that if they own a business they have right to be anonymous. The truth is that if you own a business in the United States or Canada (I can't speak for the rest of the world) you are not anonymous. Your business license is public knowlede and available to anyone who wants to look it up. If your incorporated and an officer of the corporation then your incorporation papers are public available to be reviewed. If your a property owner it's out there, if your divorced it's out there, if you've ever been arrested for peeing in your neighbors bushes it's out there and it's public knowledge. If you have a phone number it is out there unless you have paid the phone company to make it private and not publish it (imagine that, the phone company charges to not print your name. Maybe Boonex can charge to not post your name... Just a joke guys.)

In the end, everything you do off-line is public information available to anyone who wants to look, with or without a computer. The phone company actually delivers the phone books to everyone's house. The business/property records are availabe at any courthouse/supervising government agency. Heck, even the IRS will turn over your tax returns to those who ask for them. Did you know if you do any job for a government agency in the US, your pay information is all public record.

At least Boonex is giving you the choice to decide if you want to provide your information or not, at least Boonex is giving you the choice if you want to provide it, if you want to display it or not. It's time to get beyond all the excuses that are out there to complain about this topic and realize that the bases have been covered, if you want to be anonymous you can, if you want to use a pseudonym you can, if you want to post a picture of your dogs behind to represent yourself you may (Please don't shave the dog, Fido really doesn't enjoy doing those photo ops).

Now if you should choose to remain anonymous and you are a vendor on Unity looking to sell your mods, upgrade sites, provide hosting services and so on, then you will be competing with those who have chosen to be public and in that end, people will use it to make a decision. I know that I would prefer to work with the person I can see than the wizard behind the curtain.

And for those who have been stating I'm all gung ho for names and hiding... Remember, that is my real picture up on Unity and my sites are posted with my real information. I am public because I want people to know I am reputable.


What a shiny list. I love my lists, they are so neat!!
tyke
im not sure why this post as got so much negative votes because its valid in its points, if you a real business dealing with real people and money is changing hands, then real names or business names and addresses are a good thing,but most of us dont deal like that, and there shouldn't be a penalty if you want to stay annon. when i have sold stuff in my stores online, people who buy from me get my details from places like paypal and thats fine, but its still private from the casual on looker, and see more that has to be the priority, detail should only be given to genuine parties who are dealing with you on a professional level, but there still has to be protection from all those people and bots collecting information about you, its a fine balance but it has to be kept.
mistertunechat
I would like to say i dont go against stating my business name. However my opinion is because i am not offering a "service" directly on boonex, i personally would not want to give out my real information.
A good example of what has happened to me in the past was on yahoo years ago i had a screen name that had my name plus numbers something like johnsmith2009, anyway some psycho looking at my profile figured out where i lived and decided to prank call my job. At the time i was working see more for the post office. Luckily she was wrong, still I just am very paranoid when it comes to giving real information online. Again real information being my real first and last name.
Like someone else said ebay verifies people without you having to give out your real first and last name. I dont mind boonex having my real information, and of course people i do business with. I just wouldnt want my real name just being out in the open for everyone to see. I am one of those people that have a unlisted phone number as well.. so i value privacy very much. Again this is just my opinion, and i do at least feel better knowing i will have the option to allow my real name to be shown or not
Andrew Boon
All valid points.

It's a little annoying how people shear the word "real names" and simply jump into hate bandwagon. Should've just added the real names display option without even telling about it. Nobody would care.
 
 
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